We are open through the holidays!
In-person sessions available in Walnut Creek, CA
Virtual appointments available anywhere in the state of California
Is your relationship on the edge?
Are you at your wits end and fed up with how your partner speaks to you, to the kids, wondering how it got this far, this bad, and this hopeless?
Do your conversations derail, making it difficult to impossible to communicate?
These are common problems and challenges that show up differently in each person and relationship. A competently guided conversation can make all the difference in transforming conflict into a safer, more productive, and fulfilling partnership and connection.
Feeling disconnected and alone?
Has work, kids, aging parents, and other responsibilities of life gradually eroded your connection? Maybe you've been drifting apart because of bad habits and patterns, unexpected changes, and broken promises.
Whatever the reason, years into a relationship, it is common to realize you no longer know - or to question that you ever really did know the person you married or partnered with, and to question how and even if to continue on in the marriage/relationship.
To reflect, integrate, and move forward deserves the right space with the right therapist.
Meet your therapist, facilitator, coach, mediator/referee, and sometimes lion-tamer
Aaron J. Feldman, LMFT (mfc43209)
For 25 years, I have been helping couples to navigate relationship issues including communication, anger management, parenting, strained relationships with adult children, caring for aging relatives, grief, infidelity, sex and sexuality, and work along with other life stressors.
Whether you are experiencing high conflict or a lack of connection in your relationship, I am dedicated to helping you create a space and a path towards greater relationship satisfaction.
Areas of Expertise
Online help with Communication
Sometimes communication breaks down because one or both of you are highly sensitive and reactive. Sometimes people struggle to find the words, making it hard to keep up in rapid-fire conversations. Others avoid conflict all together. Whatever the difficulty, being able to communicate with each other well is vital to the well-being of intimate relationships, and I can help you with this.
Online Therapy for Anger Management
If your frustration and anger are getting the best of you at home and elsewhere, working with a therapist experienced in assisting couples understand, recover, and rebuild their relationships in a real and respectful manner is essential.
Online support for Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)
Whether the issues you want to deal with are related to your relationship structure or not, a therapist who is familiar with and supportive of unconventional relationships can address your goals and challenges with greater compassion and efficacy.
