Constant arguing, criticism, and blame
If you ask someone if interrupting, yelling, throwing down ultimatums, making the other person feel small, incompetent, broken, and at fault for things that make us unhappy is the way to resolve problems and disagreements, they’ll usually say no.
But a lot of the time, that’s what people do. Going that route is instinctive, actually, and it requires tremendous restraint and maturity not to go there when you’re really angry or upset.
Through slowing things down and a number of other means, I establish a safe environment that supports what’s necessary for you to have respectful and productive conversations.
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Aaron J. Feldman, LMFT is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist offering individual and couples counseling & psychotherapy. His office is in Walnut Creek, easily accessible to Antioch, Bay Point, Benecia, Clayton, Concord, Crockett, Danville, Hercules, Lafayette, Martinez, Orinda, Pittsburg, Pleasant Hill, Rodeo, and San Ramon. He specializes in working with clients on anger management, high conflict and abusive relationships (including domestic violence), communication, intimacy, and other significant personal and relationship problems.
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