Help with
Anger Management, High Conflict, and
Abusive Relationships
Is everything a fight, overly stressful, and complicated? Do you feel like you're walking on egg shells, avoiding each other, feeling hopeless yet some part of you still longs for common ground and connection? Perhaps you're wondering if it's time to give up.
I have helped hundreds if not thousands of couples with these issues.
Co-parenting and Mediation
Holding steady "the best interests of the child" is easier said than done, especially when you're hurting, you have so much going on, and your differences might be glaring in your parenting styles.
I offer a respectful and practical approach, making room to hear what's helpful to hear while keeping focused on how to move forward.
More than resolving disputes, I strive to help you establish the foundation of a realistic, functional, and collaborative co-parenting partnership.
Even separated and divorced, the structure that the two of you make can give your child/ren the feeling of being safe and secure so that they can heal, connect, explore, and grow.
Open Relationships, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory
Are you considering opening your relationship or encountering challenges with a relationship that's already open?
Whether establishing or reworking agreements, running into unexpected feelings, or grappling with issues unrelated to your relationship-structure but wanting to work with someone familiar and supportive of unconventional/non-conforming relationships, I'm here to help.
Meet your therapist, coach, facilitator, guide, referee, and sometimes lion-tamer
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (MFC43209)
Aaron J. Feldman, LMFT
Licensed since 2006 and working with couples since 2002, I specialize in communication, anger management, parenting, co-parenting, and open relationships. I also help couples with infidelity, work-life balance, life transitions, grief, and pretty much everything within, between, and beyond.
Shared and common as problems might be, each person and every relationship is unique, so what I will have to offer is tailored to you specifically.
Our temperament, gender, culture, personal and relationship history, identities, tendencies, habits, practices, dynamics, and circumstances all contribute to inherent challenges and solutions. I listen for and attend to these aspects of you and your life when working together.
My style, embued with warmth and humor, is spacious but also focused, depthful and also practical.
Areas of Expertise
Anger management, conflict, and abuse
If your frustration and anger are getting the best of you at home and elsewhere, working with a therapist experienced in assisting couples understand, repair, and rebuild their relationships in a real and respectful manner is essential.
Open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, and polyamory
Whether the issues you want to deal with are related to your relationship structure or not, a therapist who is familiar with and supportive of unconventional relationships can address your goals and challenges with compassion and efficacy.
Experienced Marriage therapist & couples counselor
As a professional therapist for over two decades, I can't say that I've seen everything, but I have seen a lot. Explore this website to learn more about how I conceptualize and approach various issues that arise. Check back from time to time to see what's new.
